Life Updates: A House, My Relationship, and Rediscovering Myself

Life has been full lately, in the very best (and sometimes chaotic) way. I wanted to sit down and share some personal updates with you because I know so many of you enjoy hearing not just about anxiety recovery, but about what’s happening in my world behind the scenes.

And honestly? I feel like every time I record a “life update,” I think, how do I always have so much going on?! But here we are again, and I’ve got some really big updates to share with you.

Today I’ll share:

• The exciting news about buying my first home

• How my relationship has been evolving (and what it’s teaching me)

• Amelia’s big school transition and how she’s thriving

• What I’ve been working on in therapy

• How I’m rediscovering myself in this new season of life

• What’s next for A Healthy Push in 2026
  

So, let’s dive in!

Buying A Home 🏡

This is still so surreal to say, but I bought a house! By the time you’re reading this, I’ll either be moving in or already unpacking boxes.

My apartment has been wonderful these past few months, but I found myself craving something more permanent. I wanted a place that felt like home: a space to grow, decorate, and truly make my own.

The house I found is a sweet little bungalow not far from where I live now. When I first showed photos to friends, they all said the same thing: “This house is so you, Shannon!”

Here’s what I’m most excited about:

• The porch. It gets amazing sunlight and warmth, and I’m actually planning to make it my office space. Imagine working surrounded by plants, twinkle lights, and that indoor-outdoor feel.

• The neighborhood. It’s walkable, community-oriented, and close to coffee shops, restaurants, and even the beach. Plus, it’s less than 10 minutes from Amelia’s school (a huge relief after a longer commute).

• A fresh start. This home feels like the perfect place to continue building my life and yes, there are plans for my boyfriend to move in too.

As someone who grew up poor and never imagined homeownership was even possible, this milestone feels incredibly meaningful. I keep reminding myself to slow down, notice the good, and really let myself feel proud of how far I’ve come.

Relationship Updates

It’s been a year since Patrick and I went on our first date (wild, right?). And while the past year has been amazing, it’s also been real. Like any relationship, it’s brought challenges, growth, and plenty of moments where I’ve had to hold up a mirror and do the inner work.

What I love most is how invested we both are in consistently working on communication, connection, and building a solid foundation. Patrick has also been so thoughtful in building a relationship with Amelia, which has eased so many of my worries. He’s approached it slowly, mindfully, and with so much care. Watching them bond has been one of the most beautiful parts of this past year.

Amelia’s Big Transition

As a mom, one of my biggest sources of anxiety recently was Amelia transitioning to a new school system. I worried about how she’d adjust, make friends, and feel settled. But she has blown me away.

She’s handled the transition with so much courage, joy, and confidence. She loves her teachers, has made friends quickly, and hasn’t had a single day where she’s come home upset about the change. It’s been such a reminder for me (and maybe for you too) that uncertainty doesn’t always mean bad. Sometimes it opens the door for really amazing things.

Therapy, Healing, and Rediscovering Myself

Even though life feels stable and good, I’m still in therapy and I plan to keep it that way for now.

Lately, I’ve been working on patterns that don’t serve me anymore, like always putting others first, struggling to ask for help, and feeling like I have to do it all on my own.

It’s hard work, but it’s worth it. My therapist has been so helpful in reframing things and challenging me to slow down, set boundaries, and actually receive support.

I’m also in a season of rediscovery where I am asking myself:

• What do I love now?

• Who am I in this phase of life?

• What community do I want to build around me?

I’m excited to lean back into adventure, spend more time outdoors, and try new things (even surfing… which honestly terrifies me, but I’ll give it a go!).

So, What’s Next for A Healthy Push...

Looking ahead to 2026, I’m craving stability. Instead of big, sweeping changes, I want to focus on refining what I already offer and doing it even better. That means:

• Continuing my Panic to Peace program twice a year

• Growing and nurturing my private coaching community

• Creating new mini-courses and free classes

• Hosting more guest conversations on the podcast

• And maybe, finally, launching some merchandise like affirmation cards and stickers (I have so many ideas!)

Final Thoughts

Life right now feels full, chaotic, and exciting in all the best ways. From buying a home to growing in my relationship, watching Amelia thrive, and rediscovering myself, this season is stretching me, but in such a good way.

And I want to remind you (just like I remind myself): reflection matters. Take a moment to notice how far you’ve come, the progress you’ve made, and the growth you’re living out every day.

Because it’s so easy for our brains to only highlight the struggles. But the truth is, there’s so much good, healing, and transformation happening too.